"The Cage"
I blamed everyone but myself for being there.  I also wanted someone to rescue me from there.  The cage kept getting smaller and smaller and turning into a black box.  No longer being able to look to the outside.

I firmly believed that I was not gonna move from that safe tiny black space.  Everything out there was a landmine.  I was no longer living life.  I was just existing.  And that is all I needed, I felt.

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